I recently came across a personal news story about one patient’s prostate cancer journey. It gives some valuable insights that I want to share with my readers, along with some of my own thoughts.
Background: The patient, “Nick”, was diagnosed with aggressive prostate cancer. Nick’s journey began with his diagnosis, followed by the typical round of tests and consultations. Ultimately, he chose weeks of beam radiation treatments. In a matter of months, he racked up 64 appointments.
Looking back on the entire experience, here are his insights.
- No one is prepared for a cancer diagnosis. The diagnosis stunned him. He thought that his reasonably healthy lifestyle would assure freedom from something like prostate cancer. This is true for many of my patients who embrace wellness-based habits. Like so many unexpected hard circumstances in life, after the initial shock there’s no user manual to guide next steps.
- It’s not necessarily your PSA number that’s cause for concern; it’s an increase in the number. As I’ve written in many blogs, the PSA test has merit as a warning, but not as a diagnosis. Don’t panic. The test is not specific for prostate cancer, so the number itself does not automatically mean prostate cancer. More information is needed. Even though it may be inconvenient to schedule more tests, it’s worth it to find out specifically what is causing the rise.
- Finding the right doctors from the start really matters. Nick did his research and chose to work with two doctors whom he trusted and felt had the experience and knowledge base to treat his cancer. It’s important to put yourself in the right hands, preferably an expert.
- Convenience matters when you’re faced with eight weeks of daily radiation treatments. There are radiation facilities everywhere in the U.S. but some radiation patients who want a center of excellence must travel long distances back and forth every day. At Sperling Prostate Center, we don’t offer radiation therapy, but the convenience of outpatient focal therapy speaks for itself. So does the rapid return to normal activity. Also, our scheduling staff strive to set timely appointments for our patients. This can make life easier for cancer patients, taking away one less burden.
- Professional, upbeat staff matter too. I can’t agree more. We’re proud of our team of professionals who bring not only expertise but also a warm and positive outlook. Attitude can be contagious. Spreading good cheer and confidence is as important for cancer patients as correct diagnosis and cutting-edge treatments.
- Communication is key. Nick describes how communication with his doctors made his journey feel efficient and seamless. He and his wife were fortunate to have clinicians who took time to explain everything, and who showed up during the treatment process to answer questions and make sure Nick was doing well. Likewise, it’s important to me to go over each patient’s multiparametric MRI scan so he understands the portrait of his cancer, and what his choices are. I also want to listen to what matters to each patient in terms of his wellbeing and lifestyle. After all, we’re treating the whole person, not just a small gland in his pelvic bed.
Nick has illuminated the patient’s experience of the prostate cancer journey. Each of his points offers helpful wisdom and support, and identifies important needs that may be difficult for patients to talk about. Thank you, Nick, for opening your mind and heart to doctors and patients everywhere.
NOTE: This content is solely for purposes of information and does not substitute for diagnostic or medical advice. Talk to your doctor if you are experiencing pelvic pain, or have any other health concerns or questions of a personal medical nature.

